Candle of Love Spell.
The Candle of Love Spell is a traditional ritual intended to attract or strengthen romantic affection between two people. This spell uses symbolic items and specific actions to help focus intention and energy on the goal of mutual love.
Each item in this spell serves a particular purpose, chosen to support the spell’s effectiveness.
The following materials are used: a length of red silk cord, which symbolizes passion, desire, and the smooth flow of energy between two people.
Love-drawing oil is used to anoint the candle, infusing it with intention. This oil often contains herbs and essences such as rose, jasmine, or patchouli, which are traditionally linked to attraction and affection.
Love-drawing incense is burned to purify the space and carry desires to the spiritual realm. The smoke helps to manifest intentions.
One red candle, large enough to burn for at least seven hours, represents the enduring energy and passion of love. Its steady flame symbolizes unwavering intent.
Traditionally, this spell is started on a Monday during the waxing moon. Mondays are associated with the Moon, which governs emotions and relationships, and the waxing phase is considered ideal for drawing things toward you.
To begin, place the red candle at the center of your altar. This position represents the heart of your intention. Light the love-drawing incense to cleanse the area and invite positive energy.
Using a pin or sharp knife, etch the names of both people involved into the candle. This step personalizes the spell and connects the candle’s energy to those involved.
Next, dress the candle with the love-drawing oil. While anointing the candle, focus on the desire for mutual love and connection. During this step, the following chant may be used:
Candle of love, work me this spell,
That the one I do love will love me as well.
Light the candle. If using poppets or symbolic representations of yourself and your loved one, pass each poppet first through the incense smoke, then briefly through the candle flame. This process charges the poppets with the elements of air and fire, which are associated with communication, passion, and transformation. The following phrase may be spoken:
Air and fire, bring forth my desire.
Place the poppet representing yourself seven inches to the left of the candle, and the poppet for your loved one seven inches to the right. The number seven is traditionally linked to spiritual power and destiny.
Visualize your loved one clearly in your mind. While holding this image, repeat the following incantation seven times to reinforce your intention:
I enchant you by earth and heaven
Turn to me, turn to me, turn to me by seven.
Through moonlight and the black of night
All of my love you shall requite.
[Insert name] think of me with loving pleasure
As you turn to me by daily measure.
Now turn to me, turn to me
For this I will, So Mote It Be.
Allow the candle to burn for one hour. This focused period helps anchor your intention. For safety, never leave a burning candle unattended.
The spell is repeated in the same way for six consecutive nights. Consistency and repetition help build and maintain the spell’s energy.
Each night, move the poppets one inch closer to the candle. This gradual movement symbolizes the drawing together of two hearts and the strengthening of the bond.
On the seventh and final night, the poppets should be touching the candle, but care should be taken to ensure they do not catch fire. This closeness represents the culmination of your efforts and the union you seek.
On the final night, allow the candle to burn out completely. As the flame extinguishes, visualize your intention being released into the universe.
Once the candle has gone out, use the red silk cord to bind the poppets together, face to face. This act seals the connection and symbolizes the union of energies.
The bound poppets are then concealed in a place where you and your loved one are likely to meet. This final step grounds the spell in daily life and supports the manifestation of your desire.
For best results, it is helpful to approach this spell with a clear mind, sincere intentions, and respect for the free will of everyone involved. The true power of any spell comes from focus, belief, and the energy brought to the ritual.
